This Week with Introspective

The definition of Spotlight from the Strengths Profile:

• Whether in a meeting or in a social gathering, you naturally speak up and hold the floor.

• You love capturing people's interest and attention, and find this easy to do.

• You find that you can get people to listen to you and focus on what you’re saying or doing, whatever the distractions.

Questions to help you bring this strength to life:

• In what moments can I use my presence to guide and uplift others?

• When might I shine a light on someone else’s ideas instead of my own?

• How can I use my voice to move a conversation forward with purpose?

Resources of the Week

Article

How the spotlight effect influences your experience of the world

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We all think people notice us more than they actually do. This article breaks down the ‘spotlight effect’ and how letting go of it can boost confidence.

By Madeline Miles

Video

You are contagious TEDxLondon

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Vanessa reveals that our behaviour, from hand gestures to how we say 'hello', changes the way others perceive our confidence.

By Vanessa Van Edwards

Article

To Connect With Your Audience, Be More Vulnerable

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Good communicators make themselves look smart. Great communicators make their audiences feel smart.

By Adam Grant

Strength Story: Mary

Spotlight, With Purpose

For Mary, Spotlight isn’t about being the center of attention — it’s about presence with intention. She’s learned to use her charisma to guide conversations, create clarity, and bring people together. What once drew her toward the stage now fuels her career in sales and mentoring, helping her elevate others while moving ideas forward. For her, Spotlight is less about shining alone and more about helping others shine alongside her.

Ready to bring more connection into your daily life?

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