This Week with Introspective

The definition of Rapport Builder from the Strengths Profile:

• You start conversations with people quickly and easily.

• You love finding something that is of interest to you both, helping to establish a quick rapport.

• You love meeting people for the first time and quickly getting to know them.

Questions to help you bring this strength to life:

• Find common ground: Where do my interests, experiences, or values naturally align with someone important in my life?

• Take action: How can I intentionally show curiosity or support to deepen these connections?

• Stay open: What assumptions might I need to release in order to build genuine rapport?

• Strengthen community: Who might feel more seen, heard, and valued through my efforts?

Resources of the Week

Article

Don’t Make Small Talk. Think Big Talk.

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Discover the rewards of discussing deep things.

By Arthur C. Brooks

Podcast

How to Talk to People.

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How do we overcome the awkwardness that keeps us from starting a conversation?

By Hanna Rosin, Julie Beck, and Becca Rashid

Article

Seven Tips for Better Relationship Conversations.

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Practical, science-backed tips on building genuine connections through effective communication. 

By Marc Lesser

Strength Story: Mary Clare

Building Community Through Connection

When Mary Clare moved to San Diego, she didn’t know many people — but she knew her strength: building rapport. From casual chats to lasting friendships, her journey is a reminder that community doesn’t just happen — it’s created.

Ready to bring more connection into your daily life?

Our Introspective cards are designed to help you tap into your strengths — like Rapport Builder — with small, powerful reflections each day. Whether you’re building new relationships, deepening existing ones, or simply getting to know yourself better, a daily reminder can make all the difference.

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